The best thing about blogging is the community. With this in mind, I thought I found ask a few (100 to be precise!!) of my blogging friends to share THE BEST blogging tip that they have ever been given.
We have bloggers at all different stages of their blogging journey, so I hope you enjoy reading their best blogging tip.
101 blogger’s share their best blogging tip
I thought I would kick things off with this gem. “Would you build a house on rented land?” For me this sums up perfectly the importance of having your own email list and not just relying on social media platforms which could change.
It’s one of yours Aby, take imperfect action just get it written then edit it afterwards – mrsshilts.co.uk
Explore the social aspect of blogging – join Facebook groups, and solicit coffees and meet-ups! meetthewildes.com
Don’t compare yourself to other bloggers. That’s been a huge thing for me, realising that there is room for all of us. fivelittledoves.com
Treat each page/ post as an equal value to the next. How do you expect a bigger company to pay you X if you are giving a full page spread to something of barely any value? Whatkatysaid.com
“Done is better than Perfect”. It’s all too easy to get bogged down with trying to write the perfect post, take the perfect images or create the perfect product. As a result, nothing happens and time ticks by. Believe in yourself and your idea and start to make it happen, don’t wait. This is a work in progress for me but something I keep coming back to when I need to push myself. Lovefrommim.com
Blog for yourself and about what you know. If you blog because you think it’s what people want to hear, it will stop being fun, and become a chore. theparentgameblog.co.uk
Remember why you started the blog in the first place. It’s so easy to get bogged down with content ideas, stats and rankings, that it’s easy to forget why you started blogging. If the fun starts to go, take a break and come back with a fresh pair of eyes. realmumreview.com
Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing or saying, just be yourself! leeleeloves.co.uk
Spend as much time networking and engaging as writing, if not more! mymummyspennies.com
Take a break. Blogging can take over your life sometimes. Stepping back and taking a break really helps when it starts to feel too much. life-as-mum.co.uk
Don’t compare yourself to anyone you perceive to be bigger or better – hone your tone of voice, and write as you speak – people will feel like you’re speaking friends. witwitwoo.com
It’s your blog, if it doesn’t feel right to you or you don’t like it then you are allowed to say so. Whether that’s a sponsored post request or a comment. Say no, hit delete, continue being awesome! chammyirl.co.uk
Do it for you. It’s so easy to get caught up in stats and trying to make money that we lose ourselves and our passion for doing it. Every now and then I have to remind myself exactly WHY I started my blog and it helps re-invigorate me! devonmama.com
Think about your ideal reader and write for her/him. This helps you to identify your purpose and audience in writing, and that shapes everything else you do. lifebynaomi.com
Don’t be afraid to share what you’ve written! You’ve spent hours writing, editing, taking photos etc. so make sure people actually see it. It still feels a bit odd for me to share my own links but what’s the point in slaving over a hot computer if no one reads it? pinkscharming.com
Try to get a few posts drafted so you have posts to fall back on in busier times so you don’t lose consistency from not posting. Once you have 3/4 in the ‘bank’ then add in an extra posting day into your schedule. nomipalony.com
The best blogging tip I have been given is to NOT COMPARE. It’s so easy when you first start blogging to compare your blog to others who have been doing it for years. You have to start somewhere and you only get better with time! mummaandco.co.uk
Outsource if you are struggling for time. There are so many talented bloggers that can help with areas that you need help with, from header design to developing a Facebook strategy. You don’t need to do it all alone. monkeyandmouse.co.uk
Don’t try and be something you’re not. Readers will spot a fake immediately farmerswifeandmummy.com
Concentrate on 1% infinity. It’s a principle that says, just get 1% better, every single day, day in and day out, and you can end up wherever you want to be. It keeps me going when I’m overwhelmed by too much or too little work! tamingtwins.com
One of yours Aby, The one that resonates most is “we don’t need more time, just more focus” Amen to that it’s my new mantra, actually! amytreasure.com
Be bold! It’s our responsibility to tell the true story that mainstream media doesn’t always! motherhoodtherealdeal.com
‘Just get it written and move on’. We all have posts that we sometimes wonder why we said yes to them or that they just are not flowing. It falls further and further down your to-do list until it’s deadline day! dearbearandbeany.com
Find your voice. Nothing will feel right, sound natural, or be well-received until you are able to be totally authentic. refinedprose.com
‘Create content for your audience but write for yourself. Enjoying the craft of blogging will translate in every post and will help keep readers engaged plus writing content for them and based on what they’re interested in reading will draw them in in the first place’ motherdiaries.com
‘Aby, I think the best one for me has been your one about focussing on your target audience, who are they? Think about them when writing’ happymummy.co.uk
Write and be true to yourself. Hannahspannah.co.uk
Set goals, small and manageable. Daily and weekly goals have always helped me get to the monthly and yearly goals a lot easier. babiesandbeauty.com
Don’t compare yourself to somebody else’s highlight reel and also when working with brands, remember that they’re not always looking at people with the biggest followings, I’ve been told that sometimes it’s about the blogger and the bloggers family, rather than their follower counts. bump-to-baby.com
Ruth – Write what you want, say what you like and be yourself. There’s no one quite like you so if you stick to that then you’re onto a winner – rocknrollerbaby.co.uk
Alana – If you feel nervous about making a particular post live, just hit publish. It’s guaranteed to resonate with others. baby-holiday.co.uk
Rachel – Don’t share anything you wouldn’t feel comfortable telling your mother face to face. thelittlepip.com
Get out there and meet people face to face. Network. Chat to people. Rock up to the people who run the blogs you love at events. Talk to brands at events. mrsmummypenny.co.uk
Be true to yourself and be honest. You’re writing your blog about you and your family so be honest about it and readers will associate with you more. beingtillysmummy.co.uk
Start using SocialOomph for my social media scheduling. No more endlessly prepping up my social media updates which was taking up FAR too much of my time each week. blog.themoneyshed.co.uk
To say no more times than you say yes. If you’re in it for the long term, it really pays to write around your niche and not accept random review items or dodgy SEO posts that don’t fit in with your audience northeastfamilyfun.co.uk
Use wallpaper samples as backgrounds when taking food and recipe posts. Simple, but really makes a difference bigsteviecool.co.uk
Don’t sacrifice your beliefs for money you will regret it. Write only what you feel happy to have on your site.justaveragejen.com
To write about what you love, what you feel passionate about and what you believe in…..the rest will come with time. thedaisypages.com/
Your blog. Your rules. I think we sometimes get caught up in what we think we should be doing rather than what we want to do. lifeloveanddirtydishes.com
Have belief in yourself and don’t feel intimidated by others. Your voice and your take on it is what makes you unique midwifeandlife.com
“You can’t please everyone” I’ve found that whatever you do/write/post/share someone can take it the wrong way. Your blog and social media is yours and you should do what YOU want with it Twinderelmo.co.uk
Never change to suit a perceived audience. You’ll lose your best readers. Write for yourself and your natural audience will stay thebrickcastle.com
Don’t compare yourself to other bloggers and get bogged down by numbers. If you’re enjoying it keep going. thehappyweaner.com
Definitely, track your stats. At the beginning of every month, I write down what I’m starting with (and what I finished on last month) then on days where I feel like I’m going nowhere I can look back at my progression over time accidentalhipstermum.com
Be aware of your stats but don’t obsess over them. Remember that you started a blog because you love writing, not because of the stats. dillydrops.co.uk
Keep writing. Even if you don’t publish, keep writing. Ideas can grow from the most random thoughts. notaneffingfairytaleblog.com
Find your blogging tribe! From bouncing ideas off, collaborating, guest posting and just for the social side! herecomethehoopers.com
What was the reason you started blogging? Sometimes it’s so easy to get caught up in stats etc that you forget the reason you started in the first place! thesmallestofthings.com
Know your worth. arepops.com
Try and get the same social media handle across all channels so people can easily find you scandimummy.com
Give yourself space to learn, change, and grow. Others are not your competition, “don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle” (Jon Acuff). adventuresofanovicemum.co.uk
Use Canva, it saves so much time and looks professional playasyoulearn.com
Find your niche. Writing for everyone isn’t going to work and having 100 dedicated readers is better than having 100,000 page views but no one who comes back. TheUnsungMum.com
Be prepared to pay out for things like Tailwind, Convertkit because they will make your blogging life easier in the long run! It also gives you a drive to earn more (if you monetise) because you want to make a profit! candyflossdreams.net
Don’t accept every review or offer! Think first. Is it worth it for you or your family and know your worth. runjumpscrap.com
If you have nothing to write then write nothing.. readers see through a post that has been scraped up. If you believe in what you are doing it will shine. Do it for the right reasons oneyummymummy.com
Blog about what you love. Always fully disclose to your audience to build up trust and if you think something isn’t right for your blog don’t do it – no matter how much money is on offer. myboysclub.co.uk
Know your worth! Be yourself and be you! theinspirationedit.com
Find your blogger tribe and socialise with them. So many great blogs and bloggers out there, support each other and learn from each other. captainbobcat.com
Find your tribe! Having the support of other bloggers in your niche makes all the difference. freefromfarmhouse.co.uk
To write what you really care about, not what you think will be popular. Write with love and authenticity with every single word. Read back your work before clicking publish and ask yourself “is this true to me” kirstydee.com
Make blogging friends. Chat to them on Twitter, go to events and conferences and meet them in person! They’re amazing support, it’s always great to have someone to pick you up when you’re in a funk, you can bounce ideas off them and when you get your first troll – which is basically a rite of passage – they’ll have your back! whingewhingewine.co.uk
Go self-hosted from the off, or as soon as possible after you start. It saves a world of worry and stress at a later stage when your blog has more content than at the beginning. I waited until hubby set me up before I posted anything and I’m glad I waited. battlemum.com
Don’t ever tell the kids you are off somewhere or something is being posted to them….it could end in disappointment but it’s far better to video their surprised faces instead. emmysmummy.com
Blog for you and write about what you’re passionate about. katykicker.com
Be true to yourself and don’t compare yourself to other blogs! Every single blog is unique in its own way, and has a voice that people want to hear! intolerantgourmand.com
‘Delete olds posts so that you get more juice to the posts you want – one of yours Aby’ Mummieswaiting.Com
Just write!! Starting a blog is daunting but by putting fingers to keyboard you’re off. Good content will always be recognised, so just keep writing! Trulymadlykids.co.uk
Write as me and not someone I think my readers will want to read. Myfamilyofroses.co.uk
Take a step back, check your social media analytics and work most on those that are giving you the biggest return. You can’t be the best at everything and sometimes it is better to focus on just one or two key areas to make the most of your time! wavetomummy.com
Stop consuming other people’s content – focus on your own – This Welsh Mother
You need to spend as much time – if not more – promoting a post as you did writing it. Because what’s the point of writing it if no one knows it’s there?! crummymummy.co.uk
Don’t rush things! Take your time and don’t always jump on the band wagon.. write about things that are relevant to you, you will find that people are more interested in personal posts and you will find it much easier to write. Also, don’t be afraid to share your posts on everything, promoting your content is key when it comes to blogging! mummyandlissblog.com
Don’t focus on the numbers! rawchildhood.co.uk
Write what you’re passionate about. When you do that the passion will come through in the writing and people will see you shine through. We’re all individuals and blogs are that as well. surreymama.com
Don’t be afraid to be yourself and find your own voice. You’re the only you there is. THAT’S what makes you unique. tippytupps.com
Be selective with the photos you use – make sure they’re clear, well lit (always try for natural light, rather than using the flash) and 100% in focus. Mix it up – be creative, and don’t put up 10 versions of the same photo. Always check your background and clear away clutter if you can – a simple background is always best. mummyslittlemonkey.com
Be yourself and avoid the fakery! A blog should be a self-expression and something to enjoy so focus on the positives livingwithajude.co.uk
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. There is so much knowledge out there and always someone who can help you. mummyandmonkeys.com
Comments 9
I think almost every tip resonated with me in one way or another. I’m guilty of doing the comparison thing and it makes me feel bad about myself, so this is something that I must stop doing. Lovely to see so many blogs featured, I will try and visit as many as I can. Thank you for sharing. Sam x
Love all these tips and hints. Plus a great list to find some new blogs to read. Thanks Aby!
Oh wowsers this is the ultimate inspiring list! It definitely pays to be yourself and write about what you are passionate about. Take inspiration from others, but never copy. Admire others, but do not compare. Such good tips and advice in here 🙂
Brillant advice here for a newbie like me. Also found some wonderful new blogs to follow
SO MANY TIPS! Thanks for doing this post I think it’s really helpful to have advice from so many fellow bloggers. So many focusing on authenticity, writing for yourself, not comparing and just getting on with it (I have to admit I’m an awful faffer so will be doing my best to focus in future!). Loved this. #TheList
Wow so much to take in! Fantastic tips. I’m going to pin this so I can refer back, again and again. Thank you Aby. #TheListLinky
This is such a FAB post and all these tips are so relevant! thank you so much for including my Frenchie bit 🙂
So many great tips here. Comparing yourself to others and focusing too much on the stats can rob your blog of all joy, you definitely need to remember why you started in the first place. And focusing on one thing at a time is a big one for me, I’m always trying to multitask and everything always takes twice as long.
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Great advice! I’ve pinned to read again later 🙂 I keep comparing myself to others but my blog is only 9 months old. Definitely trying to stay true to myself! #thelistlinky